You want to feel peaceful, powerful, and present — not reactive.
You’re tired of social dynamics that feel fake, competitive, or performative.
You’re craving nature, presence, and realness more than ever.
You’ll learn to:
Communicate with calm, grounded clarity.
Find connection with anyone — no matter their vibe.
Speak up without fear, defensiveness, or competition.
Stay centered in hard conversations.
Let go of old patterns like freezing, fawning, or fixing.
Feel safe in your body — in water, in nature, in social settings.
Live in full presence, in flow with others and your environment.
What you get inside Mystic Wave Rider:
Full Video Course — Self-paced teachings with Clay guiding you step-by-step.
Powerful Practices — Breath, relating, communicating, and ocean-inspired tools to open your expression.
Embodiment Tools — For real-world moments: conflict, group settings, surf lineups, nature immersion.
Monthly Community Gatherings — Come ask questions, share space, and grow together.
The Mystic Way is Different.
Most communication teachings come from strategy.
This one comes from soul.
It’s not about controlling conversations.
It’s about calming your nervous system so your truth can speak.
It’s not about saying the right thing.
It’s about being the real you — and letting your presence do the talking.
You’ll walk away with the most magnetic thing of all:
Yourself — open, calm, connected, unshakable.
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The 5 levels of agreement are a tool to let us know what we are agreeing to, get more of our requests agreed to, and to align our expectations with reality. What do we do if people aren't keeping the agreements we make? I offer a tool to dig deeper, understand why, and have a better chance of getting what we want.
In this video I talk about agreements, give examples of well known agreements that aren't kept, explain the 5 Levels of Agreement, and aligning our expectations with reality:
If people are not keeping the agreements we make there are usually core wounds from childhood that are coming up. In this next video I give an example from my childhood where my father and I had different levels of agreement on time:
Learn to repair and reconnect our relationship when we get into a fight or something happens that we are struggling to get over. Feel that lovey dovey close connection again, feel safe, restore trust, and grow into each other. Here I share techniques, practices, tools that help us build the relationship we want.
After cluelessly flailing in my first marriage I wanted to know what happened and how I could avoid that pain, and cocreate the relationship I have always believed is possible. So I reached out for help, I was ready to be a student and the teachers appeared. I have trail by fire tested these tools and practices over the past decade and I guarantee they work. I am in the relationship of my dreams and we are cocreating the ship we both always dream of. The more we use these tools and do these practices the more intimate and creative we are, and the closer and safer we both feel, a true power couple.
In the below video I share an example of a fight my girlfriend and I got into and how we used a repair practice to reconnect:
Tools for Surfing the Waves of Life course preview. Feel better, reclaim power, these tools help me live my best life – practices, techniques, skills that are in harmony with the human body and living on earth.
Below are short condensed preview videos to explain and give an idea of what the course will be. I know in my bones this knowledge is helpful and we all can benefit from this timeless wisdom. This is why I offer a money back guarantee.
Come home to your body, your truth, and your natural power.
A self-paced journey of rewilding, nervous system healing, and soulful reconnection — guided by the tools that changed everything.
What if the most powerful healing didn’t come from adding more…
but from remembering what’s already inside you?
The Mystic Wave Rider is a course, a reclamation, and a ritual — for those ready to reconnect with the body, clear emotional static, and return to nature, presence, and truth.
🧭 What This Is
This is not another information dump.
This is a library of practices — simple, real, embodied tools — to restore you to your original rhythm.
Built from lived experience, not theory.
Crafted for real life, not perfection.
Rooted in your body, your nervous system, your soul.
🧬 You’ll Learn How To:
✅ Calm your nervous system in seconds (Vagus Nerve Tools)
✅ Breathe like life depends on it (because it does)
✅ Eat, move, and live in sync with your nature
✅ Communicate clearly, even when it’s hard
✅ Rewild your skin, feet, and habits to feel alive again
✅ Stop overriding your feelings — and start honoring them
✅ Build unshakable self-awareness + inner peace
✅ Feel like you belong in your body, your relationships, and the world
I grew up hearing the old, "sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me." As a kid I would rather have my dad yell at me or lecture me than to hit me. Now as an adult I almost feel the opposite. In martial arts class we did an exercise where we tried to trigger or neg or name call each other, simulating a bully on the street. I couldn't do it, it was harder to say nasty things to someone than to try and choke them to death or break their leg.
Then there is the saying the pen is mightier than the sword.
Here is a preview video from the Language and Communication page:
The 5 levels of agreement are a tool to let us know what we are agreeing to, get more of our requests agreed to, and to align our expectations with reality. What do we do if people aren't keeping the agreements we make? I offer a tool to dig deeper, understand why, and have a better chance of getting what we want.
Learn to repair and reconnect our relationship when we get into a fight or something happens that we are struggling to get over. Feel that lovey dovey close connection again, feel safe, restore trust, and grow into each other. Here I share techniques, practices, tools that help us build the relationship we want.
I grew up hearing the old, "sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me." As a kid I would rather have my dad yell at me or lecture me than to hit me. Now as an adult I almost feel the opposite. In martial arts class we did an exercise where we tried to trigger or neg or name call each other, simulating a bully on the street. I couldn't do it, it was harder to say nasty things to someone than to try and choke them to death or break their leg.
