by Clay Schmitz | Sep 18, 2026 | foil, learn to foil, projects, wing
Stoked to build this Efoil foil assist board.
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by Clay Schmitz | May 6, 2026 | books, how to articles, how to videos
Chapter 14 — Getting Back Out There
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For me, the first big question after a breakup is simple:
When?
When is the relationship actually over?
That sounds obvious, but sometimes it isn’t.
Sometimes there’s distance but no clarity.
Sometimes there’s silence but no real ending.
Sometimes the body leaves before the heart does.
So for me, it matters to get very clear...
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by Clay Schmitz | May 6, 2026 | books, how to articles, how to videos
Chapter 13: Getting Back Together With My Ex
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After everything I’ve written in this book…
Why would I ever want to get back together with an ex?
That’s a real question...
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by Clay Schmitz | May 5, 2026 | adventures, wing
Two epic days out at Treasure Island.
A session out here really fills my cup.
More wind on tap this Wednesday and Friday, book a Wing foil lesson here:
Amazing this is here every year and there is always plenty of room for everyone.
Also south swell heading our way this weekend and into next week. Book a SUP Foil lesson here.
So fun to share this playground with friends:
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by Clay Schmitz | May 4, 2026 | books, how to articles, how to videos
Chapter 12: What’s My Part in the Dysfunction?
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I’ve been sitting with this question for a long time:
What is my part in all of this?
Not as blame.
Not as self-attack.
Just… quiet curiosity.
The kind that shows up after everything falls apart…
when the noise is gone…
and all that’s left is truth.
The Pattern I Keep Meeting
There’s a rhythm I’ve felt across my relationships.
At the beginning…
everything feels open, alive, magnetic.
There’s ease.
There’s desire.
There’s this sense of we found each other.
And then somewhere along the way…
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