Healing After a Breakup – Chapter 12 – What’s My Part in the Dysfunction?

Chapter 12: What’s My Part in the Dysfunction?

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I’ve been sitting with this question for a long time:

What is my part in all of this?

Not as blame.
Not as self-attack.
Just… quiet curiosity.

The kind that shows up after everything falls apart…
when the noise is gone…
and all that’s left is truth.

The Pattern I Keep Meeting

There’s a rhythm I’ve felt across my relationships.

At the beginning…
everything feels open, alive, magnetic.

There’s ease.
There’s desire.
There’s this sense of we found each other.

And then somewhere along the way…