RRR – Relationship Repair and Reconnect

RRR - Relationship Repair and ReconnectLearn to repair and reconnect our relationship when we get into a fight or something happens that we are struggling to get over.  Feel that lovey dovey close connection again, feel safe, restore trust, and grow into each other.  Here I share techniques, practices, tools that help us build the relationship we want.

After cluelessly flailing in my first marriage I wanted to know what happened and how I could avoid that pain, and cocreate the relationship I have always believed is possible.  So I reached out for help, I was ready to be a student and the teachers appeared.  I have trail by fire tested these tools and practices over the past decade and I guarantee they work.  I am in the relationship of my dreams and we are cocreating the ship we both always dream of.  The more we use these tools and do these practices the more intimate and creative we are, and the closer and safer we both feel, a true power couple.

In the below video I share an example of a fight my girlfriend and I got into and how we used a repair practice to reconnect:

https://vimeo.com/1052058142

This post is part of the Tools for Life Course and the Relationship Skills page.

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Tools for Life

ToolsTools for Surfing the Waves of Life course preview.  Feel better, reclaim power, these tools help me live my best life – practices, techniques, skills that are in harmony with the human body and living on earth.

If you prefer an in person lesson contact us or book online here.

Below are short condensed preview videos to explain and give an idea of what the course will be.  I know in my bones this knowledge is helpful and we all can benefit from this timeless wisdom.  This is why I offer a money back guarantee.

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AFS Silk Review

I've had around 20 surf sessions on the AFS Silk 850 foil, and also 3 wing foiling sessions. Also one quick surf foil session on the Silk 650 in head plus conditions.

Here I show video from those sessions and talk about what I like, any short comings, and compare this hydrofoil to the F-One Sk8 850.

I'm excited to share this and test ride more AFS gear.  I got my AFS Silk from Covewater in Santa Cruz. I am using the Stringfellow adapter to Axis mast.

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Mind Surfing Meditation

Mind Surfing Meditation.  There is this concept in surfing where we see a photo or video of a wave and imagine ourselves riding the wave.

Video of surf foiling and wing foiling with words similar to affirmation or "spelling" out how we plan or will or dream of our session and life being.

Meditation is huge for me, one of the tools I thrive with and encourage everyone to practice.

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Foil Drive Review

Foil DriveTest and review of the Foil Drive Assist Max.

I tested the Foil Drive Gen 2 in flat water, in downwind conditions, and prone surf foiling.  Also I am reverse engineering the Foil Drive to asses the value, and ability to hack or upgrade.  Let's explore together if the Foil Drive is a viable way to get more waves and time on foil, or all the things the critics say about it.

Big thanks to Cort at 101 Surfsports who lent me the entire prone Foil Drive, board, and foil setup in the photo.  Also huge thanks to Evan of Axis at Live2kite who lent me his personal Foil Drive and let put it on my mast and give it a thorough test, also I saw a really cool Axis/FD integration that might be available soon...

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